Consider these thoughts about trust:
?Learning to trust is one of life?s most?difficult tasks.?
Isaac Watts
?I?m not upset that you lied to me,?I?m upset that from now on I can?t?believe you.?
Friedrich Nietzsche
?You may be deceived if you trust?too much, but you will live in?torment if you don?t trust enough.?
Frank Crane
What part has trust played in your?career and achievements??First, think about a few of your?greatest accomplishments,?work- or career-wise.?Now, consider the degree to which trust was an essential part of each experience.?For example:
- Were there people you needed?to trust and did, to meet each goal?
- How did you know you could?trust these people?
- Did they need to trust you, too?
- How did they know that you?were trustworthy?
So what?s the consequence if?you don?t have trust in the?situations in which it is?vital for success?
For starters, your work is?tentative, cautious, fearful.?Your costs are higher as you?re?mired in worry, indecision and?infighting and working at?cross-purposes.?And you?re having to clean up?after things that have gone?wrong?knowing that more?are surely ahead.?And worse. It can be a horrible experience, from start to finish.
What?s the difference with situations when trust is high?
You know you can count on?the people with whom you?re?working. They know they can?count on you.?You say what you mean.?You do what you say you will.?You ?read? each other well.?You may even develop a short-hand?communication that?s very?effective as you create a shared history?of step by step successes.?And your work on a high-trust team?may well be better than you expected?it could be.
What?s the flip side of high trust?
There?s a risk, of course, that?your trust is misplaced. I?ll go?into that in the next blog post.?One downside is that you may?not always like where trust takes?you, on your way to the goal.?For example, think of a great?coach, preparing his or her team?for a major championship game.?Or think of a very difficult course?course of study, requiring great?dedication and effort, such as?medical school.?The toughness of the preparation?involved doesn?t always seem worth it?when you?re in the thick of the?high-risk experience.?But when the spotlight and pressure?are on and you must perform?whether?in a business situation, or, let?s say, on a?surgical team?the very rigorous?preparation the coach or medical?professors led you through pays off in?many ways.
Why is it hard to create and maintain?trust?
Trust is like many other things?that we may think will ?just happen??naturally, without lots of planning,?thought and effort.?In that way, it?s like listening?well, good communications,?good follow-up, and being a?good leader and manager.?Yet there are plans you can?make and actions you can take?to set up a high-risk, high-reward?project, team or company so that?you can succeed.
Finally, ask yourself this: ?What experiences come to mind when I think of times when high?trust was needed for things to work out well, and they did??
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